What if a light on our foreheads flashed MAINT REQD when our bodies needed to get our attention?

We have a new car that has a helpful little light that goes on when Maintenance is Required. I believe it’s time for an oil change and a new air filter. The older car this one replaced could have always had a MAINT REQD light on. I was reflecting the other day how we never go to the mechanic any more. I don’t exactly miss him, although he was a very nice man. I’m sure he’s doing fine without us.

Seeing the MAINT REQD light made me think about the human body, my body, and the bodies I regularly work on doing massage. For a long time I’ve said that many of us walk around in our bodies the way we drive around in our cars: without a clue how they work and only paying attention when something “breaks.” Of course others of us are very body-aware and really cultivate health by carefully choosing what we eat, how we move and exercise, prioritizing sleep and rest, and including joyful activities along with all the responsibilities that characterize our lives. However, there are times when we take our bodies for granted and get a bit miffed when “something breaks” or we finally admit we carry a lot of pain around each day in our necks, shoulders, hips or feet.

MAINT: What is your Maintenance Required? For me, maintenance includes good food, laughter, chiropractic, massage, and sleep to name a few. I am really struggling these days with regular exercise, although I’ve been loving Walkahikes! What good care do you take of your precious resource of a body? Do tell in the comments below. Thanks!


sTre$s Part 4 or Relaxation Part 2: the importance of sleep!

I recently heard Denise Byer speak about sleep at a health and wellness seminar in La Cañada. She is a sleep consultant representing a company called Private Quarters. Denise’s facts about sleep re-iterated what I knew deep down – sleep plays a huge role in our health and wellness. I asked Denise if she could share with us some of the amazing information she has learned about sleep and inspire us to get more!

1.  What have experts determined about what happens when we sleep? What are some of the downsides to not getting enough sleep?

So many things go on in our bodies while we sleep, they can’t all be listed here.  But there are a few things that I believe most people would be very interested in.

Very simply put, actual cellular repair occurs while we sleep.  So for our health – sleep is vital.

Our appetite controllers (called peptides) are affected by our sleep.  Ghrelins stimulate hunger and Leptin signals satiety (or fullness) to the brain.  When we don’t sleep well, our ghrelin levels are increased.  And not only are we more hungry, we tend to crave comfort foods, which are usually more fattening.  After a good night’s sleep (which is no less than 8 hours –discussed in more detail below), leptin is increased.  So you actually can sleep away those extra pounds!

And beauty sleep isn’t all myth either.  Growth hormones peak during sleep which contribute to cell and tissue repair.  Collagen 1 production is accelerated during sleep, which helps keep moisture in our skin.  We want that moisture, because when skin is dehydrated it looks less youthful and supple.

During sleep, neurons are regenerated.  Lack of sleep affects the functioning of several areas of the brain.  I find it fascinating that during verbal learning tests on subjects who are fully rested, MRI scans show that the temporal lobe area of the cerebral cortex, which controls language is very active. However, in sleep-deprived subjects there is no activity within this region. The effects of this inactivity can be observed by the slurred speech in subjects who have gone for prolonged periods with no sleep

REM sleep stimulates areas of the brain used for learning and memory. When a person is taught a new skill his or her performance does not improve until he or she receives at least eight hours of sleep. An extended period of sleep ensures that the brain will be able to complete the full sleep cycle, including REM sleep. The necessity of sleep for learning could be due to the fact that sleep increases the production of proteins while reducing the rate at which they are broken down. Proteins are used to regenerate the neurons within the brain. Without them new synapses may not be able to be formed, thus limiting the amount of information a sleep-deprived individual can maintain.

2. What are the stages of sleep, how do they differ, and how long do we tend to stay in each stage throughout the night?

The periods of non-REM sleep are comprised of Stages 1–4 and last from 90 to 120 minutes, each stage lasting anywhere from 5 to 15 minutes. In more detail:

The first stage is actually a transitional stage.  During this stage, one is very easily awoken.

The second stage is the first real stage of sleep.  However, the person in this stage is still not what you might call “soundly” sleeping and can still be awoken relatively easily.

When a person enters stages 3 and 4, there is no muscle activity.  These stages are considered deep sleep.  It is during these stages children experience bedwetting and night terrors can occur.

The final stage is called REM sleep, which is an acronym for Rapid Eye Movement.  This is the deepest stage of sleep

We’ve heard the phrase “sleep like a baby.”  There is some legitimacy in this.  Infants spend almost 50% of their time in REM sleep. Adults spend nearly half of sleep time in stage 2, about 20% in REM and the other 30% is divided between the other three stages.

3.  How many hours is considered a good night’s sleep?

Sleep loss impairs our judgment, especially about sleep.  In our fast-paced world, functioning on less sleep becomes sort of a badge of honor.  Sleep specialists say that if you think you’re doing fine on less sleep, or adapting to, you’re wrong.  And if you work in a profession where it’s important to judge your level of functioning, this can be a big problem.  In fact, losing just 1 ½ hours of sleep a night results in a 32% decrease in daytime awareness.

Studies show that those who believe they’ve adapted to getting six hours of sleep instead of seven or eight actually do poorly on tests of mental alertness and performance.  There is a point in sleep deprivation where we lose touch with how impaired we are.

4. If people want to sleep better, what are some things you recommend?

Bedtime habits and environment are equally important in getting a good night’s sleep.


*        Fix a bedtime and awakening time. Your body gets used to falling asleep at a certain time if it is relatively fixed.

*        Avoid napping during the day unless you can limit it to 30-45 minutes.

*        Avoid alcohol 4-6 hours before bedtime.  While it has an immediate sleep-inducing effect, a few hours later as the alcohol levels start to fall, there is a stimulant or wake-up effect.  Similarly, avoid caffeine 4-6 hours.

*        Regular exercise, particularly in the afternoon can help deepen sleep.  However, strenuous exercise within 2 hours before bed can decrease your ability to fall asleep.

*        Avoid television right before bed.  It is a stimulant which will increase adrenaline levels, making sleep difficult and disruptable.


*        Use comfortable bedding. Uncomfortable bedding can prevent good sleep. Evaluate whether or not this is a source of your problem and make appropriate changes.

*        Have your room at a comfortable temperature. The optimal temperature for sleeping is actually between 63-65 degrees.

*        Block out all distracting noise and eliminate as much light as possible.  Consider ear plugs, a fan or white noise machine and an eye mask.

*        Reserve the bed for sleep and sex. Don’t use the bed as an office, workroom or recreation room. Let your body “know” that the bed is associated with sleeping.

*        Don’t take your worries to bed. Leave your worries about job, school, daily life, etc., behind when you go to bed. Some people find it useful to assign a “worry period” during the evening or late afternoon to deal with these issues.

*        Establish a pre-sleep ritual. Pre-sleep rituals, such as a warm bath or a few minutes of reading, can help you sleep.

*        Get into your favorite sleeping position. If you don’t fall asleep within 15-30 minutes, get up, go into another room, and read until sleepy.
Bonus Question: Do you have any events coming up that you’d like to tell people about? If someone is already a fan of Private Quarters products and wants to know more about your products, what’s the best way to contact you?

If you are interested in beginning to build a comfortable bed, I host an open house trunk show at my home the first Sunday of every month from 11 am -2 pm.  The next one will be on February 3.  Call for more information: (818) 951-4244.  You can look at my website, for information, or email me with questions denisebyer (at) msn (dot) com.  Additionally, I do one-on-one consultations.