the modern vacation

Times have changed, haven’t they?

I recently took a vacation with my little family. No two vacations are the same and this was a combination of fun, low-key family time and stay-cation, but at my brother’s house. My kid and his kid were in a morning day-camp program Monday through Friday. The morning camp gave the grown-ups time to get some things done. So in a sense, it was a combination of vacation in the afternoons and evenings with mild work expectations for the morning hours. Of course, I can’t really “work” in terms of doing actual massage unless I’m in town, but there are other aspects of being a business-owner that clamor for attention too. Things like writing blog posts about interesting stuff, reviewing my marketing plan, and organizing paperwork.

I’ll be posting a few things about stress in the coming weeks that I hope you’ll find informative and insightful. So….confession time….I brought a book about stress on my vacation. I was just planning to do some research. I’m not so geeky that I enjoy reading about stress. Well, maybe I am. Anyway, I lost the book about stress during my vacation. I had borrowed the book, so I was feeling rather frantic as I packed and unpacked trying to find it. I certainly didn’t want to purchase a book about stress to replace the one I lost on my vacation. You see my pickle don’t you?

I did find the book eventually and all was smooth sailing from there, but I could not escape the hilarity in the symbolism of this little mishap. The other thing I couldn’t help but notice on this vacation is that, as modern adults, we are really used to being plugged in. My family brought our laptop with us so that a) my husband could grade “papers” that his students had turned in on-line; b) I could work on my blog; and c) my son coud pay his favorite lullaby CD at nighttime.

Technology propels us forward. It’s difficult to go backwards or set our technology aside. We get so used to having access to information via the web and being able to make a call from the beach or the park, even when we’re on vacation. It’s not entirely bad. I had time to catch up with my mom for an hour on the phone during this vacation. That was a real treat. But it is healthy to realize every once in a while how plugged in we are, how instant our society expects us to be, and how we CAN set technology aside.

The thing I’m most proud of was that I put an outgoing message on my cell phone just letting clients know that I was out of town and when I would return their calls. I didn’t answer the phone when it rang all week and only returned calls that involved work scheduled for the weekend. That was my biggest break to myself and my family. And, of course, that’s the beauty of a small business – the world does not stop when we check out for a week.

So, the last morning of the vacation I had scheduled a pedicure and a massage. Sounds so decadent, doesn’t it? Pedicures are a tax-deductible business expense for me now because I use my clean, smooth feet to massage people. Trust me, you want me to get pedicures regularly! And getting a massage is good self-care. It keeps me honest.

I had found a neat little place for my massage the day before, stopped in and took a tour. When I returned the following day for my appointment, I asked if I had perhaps left my misplaced book there. “What is the book called?” the helpful proprietor asked me. When I told her, she just looked at me incredulously. “A book about stress? You must need a massage!”

Do you have any funny stories from this summer’s vacation? Perhaps you found it hard to set aside your technology. Share your thoughts in the comments beow.


4 thoughts on “the modern vacation

  1. I’m totally stressed because I haven’t gone on a vacation yet. I thought as a small business owner, (and, incidentally, I have 2 of them right now…businesses, that is) I could just leave my cares behind, forget about business for a week or so, and really let loose! But, somehow I think the world will stop without me. Now that’s an EGO isn’t it?!!!

    If I could sit back and plan the perfect vacation it would look like this: Cannon Beach, Oregon with horses running along the edge of the water, my granddaughter sitting next to me reading a lovely story to me (she’s 12 now and an excellent reader), my son and daughter-in-law and my hubby all playing checkers or some board game (yes, they’d be bored), nice breezes blowing through my golden locks of hair with no phones, no internet, no TV…notta…This would last about a day and then I’d go crazy without my e-mail, facebook, twitter, linkedin, LA Times website, and Multiple Listing System to tell me what’s new in Real Estate. Talk about hooked on technology…I’m there.

    Love your blog and your excellent massages,


  2. My family just completed a beach vacation and my dad, who has a very demanding and time-consuming job as an attorney, didn’t even bring his phone with him. A whole week without his phone, and he was proud of it. I, on the other hand, took a different route. I took full advantage of our not-so-busy schedule such that, when the baby nephews were sleeping and the beach was too cold, I caught up on my internet activity that I don’t usually have time for. No, it didn’t replace family time. But it was nice to be able to catch up on email correspondence, blog writing, school preparation, and general personal internet business. Times have changed, indeed.

    Glad you found my book! 🙂

  3. Michael Hollander says:

    try taking an extremely OCD almost-3-year-old going through a (very uncharacteristic) needy and naughty phase to a cabin in maine perched on a sheer cliff over the ocean and having about 40 doors and 100 light switches.

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